Apples and Apples
There is no Apples and Apples, at least when it comes to talent and personality. We each come to this life with a gift, a talent, a trait or traits that are absolutely singular in all of time and space. All of eternity if you want to go that far too. That said, it should make comparisons a lot easier, for there simply are none. We can’t be Bob Dylan or Bruce Springsteen no matter how hard we try, but each of us carries with us this wonderful golden gift that, if discovered and nurtured, can and will literally change the world, and yes I mean for the better. For those of us who know who they are most certainly, and know exactly what their gift is, and exactly how to use it to our best advantage I say; good for you, go ahead! This article is written for those who may be a little fuzzy on the issue, and specifically those who are drawn towards creating and/or performing music, though the gifts I speak of are not limited to the entertainment field. No, the gift or gifts that come with each life are of every kind, even some as yet undiscovered, or more appropriately, as yet unplumbed. The good news is that this idea frees us of meaningless and derogatory comparisons, to others who may or may not look or sound close to how we look or sound. When starting out in any field, first there is inspiration. Someone or something inspires us to want to create music. All of us study and emulate our heroes and mentors, inspirations, idols, etc. This is not only okay, but really preferable to reinventing the wheel over and over. As we digest the persona of our heroes, we find their strengths, and also their weaknesses. Our psyches perceive these things, catalog them, and accept or reject their influence accordingly. After a time, we get to the point where our hearts and minds have fully integrated the positive aspects (for us) of let’s say a Bob Dylan (this may take some time, don’t rush yourself, and also Bob is still writing and shows no sign of slowing down as yet). Notice the Bob Dylan traits in your voice, in your writing, in your playing, and then notice that as time goes by, it gets more comfortable, then seems to fade to the background as your own gift comes forward to take it one step further, then another. I grew up in San Francisco in the 60’s. Subsequently, I was exposed to a brilliant mix of musical colors, styles, moods, textures. So as I studied the Grateful Dead, I also studied The Beatles, Van Morrison, Santana, Sly Stone, Jimi Hendrix, Ray Charles, Buck Owens, Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, Bobby Womack, and on and on. To integrate these far flung ideals and styles, I tried on many different personas, some for a minute, some for a year or two. At the end of each study period, however long or short, I had gleaned what it was that resonated in my heart from each of these great artists, and could then integrate that resonance into who I was, am and will always be; me. The vocabulary that develops from this infusion of style, nuance and singularity, is profound, in its implications in our future, for no one can or will ever be just like you. Nor will anyone ever integrate those particular influences quite like you do. That means there is literally NO COMPETITION. Think about that for a moment. This means, if you choose, you can stop worrying that someone is going to knock you off the stage, because you have a unique niche, one that is unquestionably yours and yours alone. This also means that you, if you choose, can take down those walls you might have built that keep you from appreciating and connecting with your perceived ‘competition’. Now that’s a healthy thing, and something that’s sorely needed in this music business in my opinion. I hope that ideas like this will spread throughout our musical (and greater) community, and facilitate a mutually supportive environment for The Arts in general, and all those who participate, on every level.
-Alex Kash 09-16-07